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Charismatic Communication and People Skills

The Art of Flirting: How to Successfully Flirt and Get More Dates

Program Description:

Learn how to dramatically improve your dating skills in just 90 days. Over this 3-month period we'll work together in both group sessions and in 1:1 individual sessions to help you learn everything you need to know to be more successful in your romantic life. In The Art of Flirting Program, you'll get the real-life experience, practice, support and motivation that you need for dating success, unlike other courses where you simply listen to a speaker tell you what you need to know and then send you on your way, I am committed to your success, AND if you are just as committed, I know that we will achieve it together!

Program Format:

We will begin each month with a 3-hour group session where we will review the primary skills and strategies you will be working on for the month. Since you can learn much from you peers, you'll also share and hear about the victories and stumbling blocks of your fellow group members. Each week you will get specific lessons, missions, and exercises. If you complete all of your missions you will get a very special reward each month. We will schedule 2 half hour phone consults where I will personally critique your conversation and dating skills and help you understand from beginning to end how to cultivate the three tenets of success; Confidence Assertiveness and Choice. Also you will have 30 min phone time you can use in whole or parts for any questions or issues that come up.



Program Content:

A maximum of eight people will be accepted to each session. Sign up soon to reserve your spot! A three month commitment is required.


Month 1: Your Confidence is Sexy!


Group Meeting - 3 Hours
- We will be covering the following topics:
  • Start conversations anywhere with anyone
  • Express yourself in an attractive confident way
  • Create intense attraction
  • Get the signals right -- figure out when they're really interested and how to move forward
  • Set yourself up for relationship success -- from the beginning
  • Never run out of things to say
  • Understand what your non-verbal body language is really saying about you
  • Take the lead in group conversations



Week 1 - Know Thyself
Discover who you are and what you have to offer. By completing an in-depth questionnaire, you'll begin to discover how to be truly confident, be comfortable with you who are and what you're all about. Dating success doesn't mean changing who you are but rather changing how you perceive yourself.


Week 3 - Project Extreme Confidence
This week with my help you are going to create a program to develop extreme confidence. We will personalize a program to enrich your life. Rededicate yourself to and discover new hobbies, interests, and adventures that will make you more interesting and passionate in your life. Attract the person you want to be with by being the person you know you can be.


Month 2 - Flirting and Connecting 101

Group Meeting - 3 Hours
- We will be covering the following topics:
  • Get your flirt on, learn how YOU can start flirting with ease.
  • Locate and meet someone you are really looking for!
  • Have more in common with anyone by relating on an emotional level
  • Deal with a lack of interest and things around
  • Respond to anything unexpected they say


Week 1 - Get out there!
Get out there and meet more people!. Meeting people is easier than you could imagine, I will show you how. Embark on specially prepared individualized Action Missions. You will be going to the places with the kind of people you want to meet and taking steps to engage them or getting them to engage you in conversation.

Week 3 - Make it happen!!
- Time to make things happen. This week you will be pushing your limits and verbalizing what you want. No more nebulous friend-zone relationships, no more wishing they knew how you felt. Learn how to make it clear that you want romance, not just another friend. The missions this week will involve you being more assertive and defining your relationships you have begun to cultivate. For Women I work with you on how to gently encourage men to be more assertive with you and how you can still be assertive without intimidating or turning him off.

Month 3

Group Meeting - 3 Hours - We will be covering the following topics:
  • Creating a multitude of choice in your romantic life, no longer feel like you are limited in your dating choices
  • See how to cultivate better and more choices in your romantic life
  • How to start a solid relationship
  • Understanding how to bring up Marriage, Kids, or other relationship needs
Week 1 - Create the social circle you always wanted
Nothing is more unattractive than a person who has no other life than the guy/girl he is dating. A rich fulfilling social life is a major part of the three tenets. This week you will learn how to explode your social circle. Your missions this week will involve adding both men and women to your social circle.

Week 3 - Master your own Destiny
- This week we will be covering what to do from meeting to well... wherever you want to take it. We will clear up what has been stopping you and make sure you are clear on the process of taking basic conversation to the first date and beyond. Also learn how to manage a full rich dating life without ever lying or hiding the fact that you now have a choice in the people that you date. I develop a weekly focus program specifically for you and your specific issues for the future. This weekly program will be the basis of any future work we do together. In this time we well review your progress and identify your weak areas for future work.

Your Investment:

Your investment for this program is $247 a month. Your enrollment will be renewed automatically each month over the course of 3 months. You can cancel at any time. Unused phone consultation time does not accrue or carry over month-to-month.

Next session starts April 5th

If you sign up a friend before april 1st you both get $50 off your first month!

Sign up for 1 on 1 Personal Coaching!

Personally work with Charisma Coaching to improve your Conversation Skills!

  • Flirt like the best of them! Become a master of the flirty playful conversation!
  • Work on your ability to emotionally connect with the deeper part of ANYONE!
  • Stop the stall! Come away with tangible techniques to never run out of things to say!
  • Motivate yourself! A professional coach helps keep you motivated on working on your goals and you get the feedback to make genuine progress!

If you would like to schedule a more personalized private coaching session we offer both in person one on one coaching and phone coaching. If you do not live in San Francisco and want to arrange private in person coaching please contact us for information on additional lodging and flight costs. We also do personal style consluting. We will take you out here in San Francisco and help you update your wardrobe. Style consults are two to three hours. Contact us to schedule the time with us after you purchase your selection.

My experience talking with Dan on the phone for an hour was really good. As a result I've injected new life into my conversations, and people are saying to me, "we have to get together more often!" Kid you not. My review: Five stars. It was exactly what I was looking for: clarification on basic good conversation!!! Thank you

- Jay from Los Angeles

Dan introduced me to a whole new world of creating powerful connections with the people I meet on a daily basis. Let's face it, I went to Dan to learn how to connect with the women that I wanted to meet. But a side benefit of the coaching was that I found it helped build relationships in many areas of my life. I use the techniques in business and with friends, too. They are very powerful and I'm incredibly glad I have worked with Dan. He cares that his students succeed. As a side note on the romance front, the issue I'm dealing with right now is having too many girls in my life ...

- Richard from San Francisco


Personal Consultation $65





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